9 tips to make your relationship work out

Some people have the belief that love is a friendship with romantic moments.  Despite this, many couples do not evolve and stay on the stage of the spell, one where everything smells like a fairy tale.

The trouble with spells is that sooner or later it will break and that’s when the clouds clear from the heart.



The couple must love each other amidst all the trials and misgiving. Their love must be for good times and bad times. They have to be aware that being in love is not to be perfect but rather to accept what is imperfect. No matter how imperfect the other person is as long as you feel happy with him or her, that is enough for you to consider that what you feel might be love.

Here are some tips that can help break the spell of infatuation:

9 tips to improve your relationship:

1.Show yourself as you are and ask your partner to do the same. This may not sound good at first, but it makes sense when it comes to seeking a lasting relationship.

2.There should be dialogue between the couple so as to avoid misunderstanding. That will make you tune in to your partner and know what she wants. So you know if the wishes of the two are achievable.

3.Do not change the way you are. Think, feel, and act as you are. Don’t try to act like a different person just to please your partner. Let him or her accept you for what you are and for who you are.

4.Do not deny your feelings. If you feel that that person is not for you, just admit it, whether he or the other looks like a movie star or have a good economic position.

5.Ask your partner about the perceptions he has about you. It helps you recognize what the image you are projecting.

6.Be aware of your surroundings. Look at the how people around you react to different situations and make adjustments on how you deal with them.

7.Everything has its time, do not force anything. Do not expect that in two days your partner is willing to surrender his or her entire life. All those who put some barriers around them will not easily allow people to influence them. Remember that not everything is easy to get.

8.Be tolerant. All people are different and if the other person opens his heart, the best you can do is accept the contradictions that arise. Remember that looking for someone would mean meeting people who are different from you, because nobody is a carbon copy of anybody.

9.It is comprehensive. There are episodes in our lives that we don’t want to be shared. So it is also the same with other people. It is best to wait until the other person feels secure with you before he tells you things he wants you to know.

Love is a work in progress. It is a feeling in constant change, so do your best to adjust and deal with people the right way.