Three Sentences for an Everlasting Love

There are three simple phrases that can make a big difference in a relationship of love and commitment. Thus, providing you with everlasting love.

Three little sentences that can help make the love last until the last of our breath:

I love you, 
I'm sorry 
and I forgive you.



My grandmother told me these thirteen years ago, but her words still ring in my ears as if they had been uttered just a moment ago…

I had grown far from her, and I honestly do not remember receiving any other advice, and for me, it has much value.

"Three phrases should say every day," she told me. "Be sure to say them, and do not take anything for granted."

I love you.Sorry.I forgive you.

 

Three short sentences, three simple sentences. Three sentences which are full of meaning. Three phrases that sometimes escape us, like air … very easy to take for granted.

"I love you."
Because it never hurts to say it, and because we always like to hear it. They can be whispered tenderly, passionately declared, shouted with joy … "I love you" with a laugh, a tickling in the soul. "I love you" wet with tears … a reality stronger than a feeling or circumstance. These words when uttered honestly, will ease away the pain that one is feeling. It also gives strength to someone who is currently undergoing pressure and hardships. This will encourage the ones who are losing hope and will make them fight the hardships that they are experiencing.

"Sorry."
There are so many things we do that may hurt someone especially the ones that we love. It is easy for us to take them for granted knowing that they love us and can forgive us when we ask for their forgiveness. This is the time when we have to seek their forgiveness and really mean it. We have to remember the fault that we committed and try not to repeat the same mistakes that we had done. With this in mind, we have to be humble and say “I’m sorry”. We just have to wait for the person we offended to accept our apology and to forgive us. Although it is impossible for us to be perfect, we have to try to do the right things. Being humble to admit our mistakes is one step in making a relationship stronger. Another way is to be able to forgive the ones who have offended us. It may be difficult for us to forget, but forgiving is a step closer to it. So if we make mistakes, we have to say, “Sorry.”

"I forgive you."
Forgiveness is a gift. It is a gift for the one who forgives since he/she can set the one who erred free and at the same time he/she is also setting himself/herself free. It is also a gift to the one who asked for it since it will make his/her mind free from guilt. Forgiving is an act which can strengthen relationships. You forgive because you love, and when you do … you are free.

My grandmother was happily married for over sixty years. I'm sure that the recipe that she gave me was the secret for her long marriage.



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